B.E.A.C.O.N
This acronym came to mind after seeing the rays of light pouring onto the rocky sea. It became a metaphor for the rough patches in our lives that are hard to navigate without someone to walk alongside us”
“Welcome to Autism Family Dynamics: Your Beacon of Support, Hope and Courage”
Discover how BEACON principles guide individuals, families and professionals through the journey of autism and other related hidden disabilites.
BELONGING; ENPOWERMENT; ACCEPTANCE; CREATIVITY; OPTOMISM; & NURTURING
BECOME ROOTED NOT ROOTLESS
Autism Family Dynamics Founder.
I am a Catalyst for Change in the world of hidden disabilities, based in Shropshire but with a global impact.
I am a World Bridger between individuals, families and institutions. By that I mean I translate perspectives, language used, and human dynamics between neurodiverse and neurotypical minds.
I have been recognised for my expertise in spiritual practices, life purpose, creative mastery, and embodied relational therapy, dedicating 25 years to helping families facing challenges and earning their trust.
I discovered my own neurodiversity, including Nonverbal Learning Disability, Aphantasia, and my journey as a Selective Mute in recovery in 2005.
My advocacy work includes a presentation at the House of Lords in 2019, where I aimed to support marginalised groups.
I strive to improve understanding between neurotypical and neurodiverse individuals.
My qualifications include an NVQ 6 in Careers Education and Guidance, ordination as an Interfaith Minister and Spiritual Guide in 2006, a black belt in Nia, and an Advanced Diploma in Embodied Relational Therapy in 2015.
I am also an Intentional Creativity Artist and Teacher, and I have written three books and four ebooks, with more in progress.
MY INTERFAITH VOW 2005
“Here I am, wherever I am, shining my light naturally, I vow to see the sacred in myself and the apparent other, and release us into the truth of who we are” Sue Bayley
Explore Your Life
What matters to you?
What end result do you want?
How do various parts of your personality support you with your intention?
When do you take time to reflect on what works and what needs to shift, to support your plans?
What Do Your Surroundings Look Like
If you look at nature it doesn’t try, it simply is?
It takes what it needs to flourish.
How do you flourish in today’s fast paced world?
What essential nutrients are missing?
How do you communicate your needs?
Can you give yourself the same regard as you give others? valued?
Who do you turn to for assistance?
What Are Your Aspirations
If you were a tree, your roots provide the stability for your goals.
How rooted are you?.
Can you stay true to yourself in a storm, or do you become uprooted?
How can you bring light and energy to your aspirations?
Your Unique Assets Of Knowledge Skills And Experience
If you consider the branches of a tree, they navigate the space around them with ease.
They move with what is happening in the present moment.
They honour their essence.
They change with the seasons.
You can learn from them. And apply their wisdom.
Frequently Asked Questions
Explore the differences between Nonverbal learning disability and Autism.
How will my child survive when I am gone?
Is my child ever going to move beyond selective mutism and find their voice?
How can we assist our child in developing social skills?
What educational resources and accommodations are available for children with NVLD or autism,?
What therapies or interventions might be helpful for our child?
Identifying Concerns of Adults Afraid of Diagnosis
What do I do now? I am different?
What happens after a diagnosis?
Will I ever belong?
Why do I feel I have no right to exist?
How can I stop being misunderstood?
Top Challenges Faced by Professionals
How can I understand my clients who present differently?
How can I earn their trust and respect?.
How can I deal with their projections?
My batteries are low, how can I recharge them?
Proposed Priorities for Future Generations
Early identification and diagnosis are essential for support and understanding.
Education and awareness foster better insights.
Promoting strengths over deficits helps mental and physical health.
Understaning family dynamics of the birth family and ancestors is essential.
“Sue helped my son. In spite of his selective mutism, she persevered, and after 3 months he spoke a few words to her. She helped him access the training he needed, and supervised with other professionals, so we were heard. TM is now pursuing his passion and can smile again.”
We connected on Facebook, your responses have helped me move forward in my life with my confidence, and since working together i have got my own flat and am doing well in my job, you have helped me realise my worth and encouraged me to keep going even when it gets overwhelming or hard at times. I would recommend your services because you are easy to talk tii and you are soft and gentle in how you talk to me, you are not pushy or rude, you are patient, kind and you let me take my time when responding. You actually take time to listen to my needs before responding.x.
Sue has helped me to see the world from a diifferent lens, and have a greater understanding of what my child might be thinking by giving language to potential experiences from my child’s perspective. She is also teaching me to trust my instinct, because I have noticed behaviours, and intuitively known to do things to support him, but they don’t “make sense”, in away, so its been hard to trust that i am doing the right thing. This combination of confidence and understanding helps me to speak for him when he doesn’t have the words, to get him the support he needs to thrive and enjoy life, and all his incredible gifts. i am beyond grateful for Sue.
I received a fresh testimonial from a mother in Phoenix.
She said: “Sue helped me understand my son’s diagnosis of ADHD.
After 8 years of estrangement we are talking again.
I am able to hold boundaries and support him as a result.
I had traumas as a child, and a young mother.
I accepted guidance from people I met along my journey and turned my life around.
I now hold space for others.
Sue really listened to my whole story. It took a long time. it was heavy. But she listened.”
Happy to take questions over a cuppa
If these questions stir you, email me or check out my social media, and I can witness you.