Sue. The Autism-Family-Dynamics Consultant
Reverend Sue Bayley is internationally known for her guidance and consulting.
Her 5 guidance practices are: Spiritual, Life Purpose, Body IQ, Creative Mastery and Embodied Relational Therapy.
For 24 years she worked with the hardest-to-help families, where she was listened to and respected.
She lived for 47 years not knowing she herself was neurodiverse, although she always felt different. Her awakening came in 2005 when she learned she had Nonverbal Learning Disability, Aphantasia, and was a Selective Mute in recovery.
Her desire to share her story led her to the plenary sessions within the House of Lords in 2019. She also shared her intentions and message in the UK, Europe and USA.
As a neurodistinct individual herself, and an activist for autism, mutism and nonverbal learning disability, she dedicates her life to giving a voice to the voiceless and meaning to the marginalised.
Her vision motivates her, and her mission is always up to date. She wants to leave this earth and its inhabitants more aware of the dance between neurotypical and neurodiverse individuals, and she considers herself to be a world bridge between these two domains.
She has professional qualifications to back up her knowledge, skills and experiences;
NVQ in Careers Education and Guidance
Ordained as an Interfaith Minister and Spiritual Guide in 2006
Black belt in Nia in 2019
Embodied Relational Therapist Advanced Diploma in 2015
Intentional Creativity Artist, Teacher and Studio owner
Author of 3 books and 4 ebooks, with more in preparation.
Why did I create this body of work?
My own biography, gifts and challenges have led me to this body of work. I have first-hand experience in overcoming limitations and recognising the benefits of multiple intelligences. It is my mission to demonstrate that our circumstances of birth and our unique neurodiversity do not define us.
Often misunderstood, I accidently discovered my true diagnosis when assisting a frightened young client, when I took the same test. This experience allowed me to gain insight into my own strengths and weaknesses.
The process I offer draws upon the tools that have helped me me navigate a predominately neurotypical world with greater ease and grace.
Through this journey, I have gained a deeper understanding of myself and others, I walk alongside, having found my voice and purpose, and am here to support and guide towards the next step, and the realisation of full potential.
Let's look at your life
What attitudes do you hold about your life?
What are your core values?
What are your roots?
Do you actually have any?
How is your self-esteem?
How do you develop self-esteem, self-belief and self-mastery?
What are your surroundings like?
If you were a plant, can you say that your soil has all the right ingredients to grow, survive and thrive?
If not, what’s missing?
How do you ask for what you need?
How do you give others what they need?
Do you feel appreciated?
Who are your go-to people for support?
What are your goals?
If you were a tree, your goals would be like your trunk.
>What goals do you have for today? This week?
This month? This quarter? This year?
Does this question start to challenge you because you like to be free, spontaneous and live for today.
I understand. I used to be this way, yet some planned steps can help us get to where we want to go.
Your assets: Knowledge, skills and experiences
If I were to ask you ‘What are your assets?’ how would you answer?
Using the metaphor of the tree again, your assets are your branches.
If I had one tip for you, it would be to understand who you are, and what you can do naturally as early in your life as possible.
Once you know this answer, you can pick friends, jobs, values, and personal development from choice rather than randomly.
What is Autism Consultancy?
Autism Consultancy is a supportive and empowering process which helps individuals of all ages including children, teens, adults, parents and professionals to clarify their goals, overcome
obstacles, and create positive choices in their lives.
A consultant provides guidance, motivation and accountability to help clients identify their strengths, values, and aspirations to develop strategies to achieve their full potential.
Through individual or group sessions online, individuals can gain clarity, confidence, courage and direction to enhance all aspects of their lives.
This leads to an increase in self- awareness, self-belief and self-mastery and more joy.
Who is Autism Consultancy for?
I sense, support and encourage individuals, with nonverbal learning disability,mutism, and autism, and I have worked wih many neurodiverse conditions. The families and support team are also impacted, so we can work together for the best outcome.
I provide an empathetic, sensitive ear, from a lifetime of listening to others, without a wish to fix them, yet see them as they are today, and help them get where they want to be tomorrow.
I wish to devote my life to helping families impacted by neurodiversity live their best lives.
I want to create a shift in societal thinking, acceptance and an uplifting of neurodiverse individuals so that they and their loved ones don’t suffer in silence, or feel they are advocating from a lonely place.
They find they can integrate into society if they choose, with fresh choices and determination to take that first step today.
Fill in the form below to contact me. I look forward to connecting wiht you
Top questions asked by families:
What is NVLD and how does it differ from autism? Social skills? Cognitive Processing?
What strategies can we use to support communication for individuals who are nonverbal or have mutism? Alternative communication? Greater self-awareness?
How can we help our child develop social skills?
What educational resources and accomodations are available for children with NVLD or autism? Bespoke support?
What therapies or interventions might be beneficial for our child? Speech? Occupational Therapy? Behavioural Therapy? Inner Child Integration?
Identified issues of adults in fear of diagnosis.
Do you feel uncertain about your health?
What do you need right now?
What keeps you awake at night? Can you ask for help?
Are you struggling with overwhelm, anxiety and isolation?
Do you sense judgement or discrimination? Are you feeling misunderstood?
How does neurodiversity impact your daily life?
Top challenges encountered by professionals
Understanding and recognising individual presentations of NVLD, autism and mutism.
Communication barriers with individuals and families?
Offering the best conditions for trust to develop, with limited resources.
Projections from others.
Collaboration with other professionals.
Being present for each person.
Respecting cultural differences.
Releasing the working day.
Cultivating a habit of self-care.
Proposed priorities for the next generation
Early identification and diagnosis.
Education and awareness.
Promotion of neurodiversity and neurotypical perspectives.
Individual Support Plans.
Focus on strengths not deficits.
Mental Health Support.
Awareness of Family Dynamics.
The Impact of Conditioning.
The Influence of the Inner Child.
Testimonials
“Even though I had a fear of picking up the paintbrush, and I tried to say ‘No’ to a session with Sue, I couldn’t let her down. I am so glad, as she was a gentle yet determined guide, who helped me each step of the way. My fear of failure slipped away during the 90 minutes we were together, and was replaced with achievement and acceptance”. R.W. Shropshire, UK
“Sue devoted her life to being a co-worker with spirit, as someone who witnesses, mentors, and encourages others. It doesn’t get any better than that, which is the essence of Sue Bayley. She throws her heart, her soul and G.I.F.T’s into this beautiful work.” K.R. Oklahoma. USA
“Sue helped my son. In spite of his selective mutism, she persevered, and after 3 months he spoke a few words to her. She helped him access the training he needed, and supervised with other professionals, so we were heard. TM is now pursuing his passion and can smile again.” Mrs M. Shropshire, UK.
I received a fresh testimonial from a mother in Phoenix.
She said: “Sue helped me understand my son’s diagnosis of ADHD.
After 8 years of estrangement we are talking again.
I am able to hold boundaries and support him as a result.
I had traumas as a child, and a young mother.
I accepted guidance from people I met along my journey and turned my life around.
I now hold space for others.
Sue really listened to my whole story. It took a long time. it was heavy. But she listened.”
S.M.E. Phoenix
“I met Sue recently, and the first thing that came to mind was how honest she is.
Having dealt with so many people who haven’t listened, or taken into account the circumstances of what is happening, it was beyond refreshing to be able to be vulnerable with her about everything.
I felt like Sue is being a cheerleader for me, generous with her time and wisdom.
She has such a vibrancy about her and energy too. She really understands what it is like to be taken advantage of, and how to deal with the ups and downs. But really, her genuine authenticity is the thing that shines above all else.
If you need someone to listen, understand, hold your hand whilst guiding and supporting you, I know without doubt that Sue is the person to do that for you.
I would encourage any family having these challenges to have a talk with her, and find out what is really possible. Sue has so much knowledge and being in her company just feels like the hug you’ve been waiting for.”
Kirsty L. England.
How Sue has helped me
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Are you ready to live a life you love?